What do Uzbek women think about sex?
Culture and History, Uzbekistan36 Comments
This is a translation of the article which originally appeared on LiveJournal website. Some parts are omitted.
So, imagine there is a charming young lady, physiologically ready for “exploits�. But what is inside her youthful mind? There is basically following: “No sex before marriage, because it is not permitted� – it means that she is morally confident that it is bad, thus not needed. “No sex before marriage, because no one will marry me� – that is orient social directive on pre-marriage virginity. Moreover, “No sex before marriage, what if I get pregnant?� – in other words – no idea about contraception, although she knows about abortion, but it is scaring, so the hell with damn sex.
Let’s suppose that the lady somehow followed the path of sin and vice and “lost� her virginity. If she had intimacy with the one who will marry her (either because of true love or because of threats), then at the first wedding night (in fact second) fiancé would cut, most probably, his finger to get some blood mixed with saliva and spread that on bed-sheet presented to all next day. If she took the same path but ended up alone she still has to get married and she needs to be “innocent�. In that case there is a place called TashMI 2 (Tashkent Medical Institute - Kamron) where they got used to make “sewing� as well as abortions. That means non-virgin lady is brought back to a previous stage.
There is certainly more problematic option, when the path ends with two lines on pregnancy test. Then she either has abortion secretly, followed by getting married being not virgin, or she keeps a child and forces him to marry blackmailing him. Another option is to remain alone with a baby and without any chances to get married.
Most probably she has a little idea about contraception. As for our men – they just don’t like it and say the same excuse like everywhere. Taking into account that man’s word is a rule for orient woman, you can hardly find anyone arguing with that. As a result women get a whole bunch of illnesses. As in other parts of the world our local men bring lots of muck to their women. My cousin having done the same justified himself saying that when he was in business trip he had stale bed-sheets in a hotel, may be that is why his wife got syphilis. He told me that in her presence, my jaws were about falling on the table, while his wife took that bull shit on trust. Later, of course, I told him everything I think about him and about power of his imagination, advising him to be more creative next time. But the fact is that 90% of Uzbek women believe in such fairy tales. So one can make conclusions about our ignorance in that field.
Moreover we still have that psychological phenomenon about “no sex before marriage� because it is simply not allowed. On the other hand TashMI 2 is actively operating along with that phenomenon … so these mutually exclusive things somehow get along in our country.
Finally, as a result of that kind of “no sex before marriage�, in Tashkent men can survive picking up a prostitute or finding European girl with a normal thinking or persuading open-minded Uzbek girl or … but in province where there are no Europeans and very few prostitutes one can find flourishing pederasty and zoophilia – sheep and donkeys are always available.
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What do Uzbek BOYS think about sex?
It is fine for boys to have prostitutes and careless life, because one always knows there will be a young Uzbek chaste virgin girl to marry. So to say, an “untouched” and “non-filthy” girl. Macho traditions…
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[...] –A look at sex and marriage at NewEurasia.net, from women’s perspective. And Global Voices looks at marriage and [...]
In America, men believe that all of the good men end up with terrible men for husbands. The best demonstration of this axiom is Central Asia, where the best women in the world [Uzbek women] end up with the worst possible men [Uzbek men].
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Interesting. Recent research in Africa (Uganda, specifically) concluded that married men who carried on concurrent relationships (with prostitutes or companions they meet while far from home) contributed to the exponentional spread of HIV (as opposed to men who sleep with women serially, one at a time over a longer period).
Can you hear that tick? That’s the sound of an HIV epidemic waiting to explode in Central Asia.
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TO Andrew,
HIV growth rate in Central Asia is already the highest among all the UNODC regions. you may find their report online. though, i suppose it must be more due to drug injections.
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High rates of HIV infection are usually a result of various factors; IV drug use being only one of many. IV drug use is a very specific resevoir for HIV; a group that tends to be self-contained and isolated. For HIV to really get going in the general population, you need to get to the general population, which is through lots of males (and females) having concurrent sexual relations.
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“a prostitute or finding European girl with a normal thinking”
So for you prostitution is ‘normal thinking’…?
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“What do Uzbek women think about sex?”
Actually, I had a good laugh when I read this title, for it could come straight out of Moskovskii Komsomolets right next to an article about the sex life of Alla Pugachova and Filip Kirkonov. :)))))
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actualy, this is my post from LJ…
http://lia-alias.livejournal.com/118288.html
please, edit your post and give the link
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Hi, thanks a lot of correction, I was looking for original source, but neither in Centrasia, nor in other websites were that article appeared was any name or original sourse.
Thanks again
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I’ll make necessary changes shortly
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Kamron: I’m certain the Uzbek “male way of thinking” is pretty predominant in most countries. Unfortunately, these men expect to marry clean, chaste women & possibly infect them! Turning the tables, why should a clean, chaste woman even want to marry a man who has been with other women? It works both ways. Or do you guys throw sacks over them & carry them away?
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I support the “no sex until marraige” concept, and I am planning to marry an Uzbek woman.
In Uzbekestan, the sexually transmitted desease rate is less than a tenth of a percent (.1%). Can you name any “open sex” country that can say that? Of course not.
If you cn’t wait for sex until you have a lifemate, then your reasons for wanting sex are entirely selfish, and you may not be mature enough to truly appreciate what an amazing and wonderful gift it is.
You say that no sex before marriage means: “No sex before marriage, because it is not permitted� – it means that she is morally confident that it is bad, thus not needed. “No sex before marriage, because no one will marry me� – that is orient social directive on pre-marriage virginity. Moreover, “No sex before marriage, what if I get pregnant?�
It does not to me or the woman I love. “No sex before marriage” means: “I have something so wonderful and amazing that only one very special person is going to be allowed by me to experience it, and they will expereience what no other person can, because I love them so much I want them to have me completely, and no one else.”
It means being able to give something exclusive to the one you love, and knowing that it won’t be taken lightly and peddles with someone else, because you will have a lifelong committment together.
Sex is not candy, to just pass out anywhere. For those who have sex promiscuously, it is like cotton candy - all fluff and no substance, and no long-term satisfaction.
But for those who treasure it as the wonderous gift it can be, and use it only in marraige, there is long lasting substance and meat to it.
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exotic thing,that’s what I have noted when I has visited Uzbekistan !!! no awareness …and that is the difference between society implements the Islamic canon and society doesn’t implement.the results is evident’s as per :Virginity absence -abortion operations.
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Uzbek men prefer clean and fresh girls. So that he will not have thinking about girl’s previous boy friends and mostly boys don’t have sex before marriage as it is prohibited in religion. In the western countries there are too many troubles in family because fiance’s having sex with others with husband is away. And many families are spoiled because of this. In Uzbekistan a girl has only one sex partner (her husband). As for boy’s having sex with others it is because effecting western culture, because of many russian prostitutes in the streets. And boys are affraid to have sex with Uzbek girls before marriage. Afraid of taking Viginity. In europen countries males get married to torted pussy women. after that they are not satisfied and war in the family. In Uzbekistan males are satisfies with their wives. and girls once have sex with one male and she begins loving him. So all others who are fucking torted pussy don’t poke your nose into Uzbek culture. Fuck your torned big hole pussies. One more fact is there are to many homosexuals in european countries because males prefer to fuck male ass rather than women torned big hole pussy. In Uzbekistan there is no gay. Maybe but I have never known or seen or they maybe europeans.
So Kamron now you know what is the secret of Virginity in Uzbekistan. You have to think about why GOD has given Virginity to females not to males.
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Ninotchka Reply:
December 14th, 2009 at 11:47 pm
@Nakamatsu,
Ha ha ha, Nakamatsu, keep dreaming! I am European married to an Uzbek and think he is a sex God and he is happy with me. I was even married previously and he knows but doesn’t care because we are really happy together. He already has his papers so he didn’t marry me for “business”/ We really love and respect each other. (yes RESPECT) He has no secret girlfriend behind my back! I end up though taking care of helpless Uzbek women who are completely lost in my country. I know a few who have been abandoned by their husbands and are in poverty because they are stuck! Obviously there are many great things about Uzbek culture (my husband is a wonderful father!) but it is no heaven on earth!
You obviously have no respect for women (calling them pussy??) and I feel sorry for the girl who ends up marrying you.
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Well, i’m an uzbek girl. i’ve read the article and all the comments. though i don’t like the article, i realize that it’s true. i guess i’m one of left 10%. our women make me angry so much. but i’m sure they would try to change smth about that, but the problem is, that the tradition of virginity is so comfortable for men. they like it. they like to fuck every prostitue and than to marry a stupid, non-experienced little girl(much younger), so that she thinks he’s a God in sex. and than he’s not satisfied because she’s too shy n too stupid, bla bla bla n goes back to prostitues. than one day one of that prostitues gets pregnant of him and she becomes his “second wife”. because it’s prohibited by law, he just arranges islamic ceremony and makes her his wife. the 1st one finds it out only when he already has 2 or 3 children from the 2nd.
so, that’s the way it is with 90%. i don’t blame anyone, i just constanted the facts.
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Dear Kamron and the readers,
a very interesting read, especially the comments. interestingly, it was mainly males who commented on the article, except for Shirin, and thank you for a brilliant comment. Being a Central Asian girl too I think I should make my own contribution to this forum, the way males think about what girls think about sex.
Kamron, is getting it quite close, there is no sex education in Uzbekistan, information about sex reaches the minds of girls quite late, and from quite dirty souces, it is not their mothers or teachers telling them all about sex. it is not even books, but rather talks in the streets with a little older girls. usually first knowledge about sex is shocking. Girls grow up in a manner where they are strictly instructed about hiding their bodies, being careful with opposite sex. Sex is a crime for an unmarried young lady. They dont think about getting pregnant, they think about parents, about honesty, about relatives, neighbours, what would they all say? brothers and fathers might kill them for this. and moreover every respecting girl wants others to think of her as of totally non-sexual creature, which means clean. The way Nakamatsu draws the picture of dirty europe and clean uzbekistan shows his traumatic look at sex. SEX is DIRTY for him! Dear Nakamatsu, I dont know if you lived in Uzbekistan or if you have been one of the little minority of men who didnt have sex before marriage because it was prohibited by religion, usually men are well experienced in these matters. What means well experienced? their experience is also gathered usually somewhere in dirty little rooms of either a little too stupid girls who cant appreciate themselves or a quite experienced elder women, who make their business. Nakamtsu, adultry is not a western innovation, it is UNIVERSAL! we in Uzbekistan had adultry way before we ever got so close to the western culture. it is a little troubling the way you idealise uzbek society, guess you havent been there for ages. If you want to know more about Uzbekistan, read some literature from Middle Ages, you will see then we had homosexuality (bacha-bozi), then we had adultry! We in Uzbekistan are not particularly clean or the West is not particularly dirty! and believe me, men didnt start committing adultry since hollywood films appeared! read Hamza at least, late 19th century and beginning of 20th centuries, ‘mysteries of paranja’, for instance.
I agree with Shirin, that the virginity concept is a very comfortable ground for men. and the scenario she depicted is quite a common one, but i would strongly disagree with putting the number of such cases to 90%.
i read a very interesting anthropological research work on the role of sacrifices in persian/tajik-speaking population of Central Asia, which goes as far to Zoroastrian times. There the wedding is described as an act of sacrifice, where the father is the one who sacrifices, the groom is a God to him the sacrifice is made, and the bride is a prey/sacrifice itself; virginity wasnt very important for the people of those times; but because the bride was seen as a sacrifice she was supposed to be virgin. previously zoroastrians would kill a sheep which not yet born babies, to sacrifice, i.e. virgin. but this puts a woman in a role of a passive gift to a man! and this goes on till now. after the marriage, the parents of the groom would telephone the parents of the bride and thank them for the virgin bride, for the good upbringing (if there was blood on the sheets of course). she is merely a gift to someone. this is how passive women are viewed to be.
Anyway, virginity and sex before marriage, is not the religious decision, it is the decision of the two.
Jamiyat was right asking the question of what boys think about sex. there are many stories of girls being seduced to lay with a man, to prove her love to him, and then he would leave her, because he thinks, she could do it to everyone else, she being unpure, and broken (it is interesting but this sort of wording is used with the girls who were supposedly not virgins anymore, they are being spoilt or broken). is it not mean?! what an interesting view have the boys got on the matter? Kamron, maybe this is another idea for another post?
best
a girl
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Thanks guys for your brilliant comments, except Nakamatsu who is quite rude in his remarks.
Anyways, I promise to come back with a post called what uzbek men think about sex
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Well… I was born in Uzbekistan (Samarkand), lived in a small village in the mountains and then in Tashkent.
Women in the provinces of Uzbekistan are more traditional than in the City.
Back in the 60s and 70s even in Tashkent young women were very modest and belonged only to their husbands.
Nowdays is a different story: a lot of influence from Russian media and press. There are plenty of pre-marital sex relationship.
Wealthy men have more than 1 wife.
Divorces are more common and women’s morale depends on her family upbringing.
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HI !NO NEED TO TOUCH THIS HOLY TOPIC.I THINK PROBLEMS BEHIND THIS IS COMING THROUGH LACKAGE OF ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE AND INFLUENCE OF WEST..THIS RULE OF VIRGINITY HAS BEEN KEPT IN USE FOR MORE THAN 1000 YEARS AND WHY SHOULD BESTROYED NOW BECAUSE OF SOME WESTERN THINKING PEOPLE ,UZBEKS HAVE OWN TRADITION ,, RULES OF LIVE ,SO LEAVE IT ALONE….
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Dear,
I feel that you are talking about the a culture like us in egypt because we are muslims like you, I agree with the one who said that Hollywood had affect all the world not only us,Also i agree that we as men afraid from ladies that lies on their parents and may make sex with their boy friends, What i feel and i want to announce to all the girls in the world is that SEX befor marriage will not make you happy with your boyfriend after marriage but you will loose alot of respect because Allah (God) will leave you alone without support.from my bad experience ,i married my fiance that i kissed her befor and when i did so, i never think that we will fight with each other after marry. NOW,I am looking for a kiss at least from my wife,not sex,and i m always in problems with her,i think all that is a normal result to what happened befor marriage,
The Islamic culture is a good culture that makes a happy family really,and if u read about the old muslims you will feel the goodness of this culture.the rule (NO sex befor marry) is a normal rule and what they are doing in the western is not normal,now they are suffering from diseases and feeling lonely.because they dont think about making families….
SO PLZ UZBEK woman stay think in your culture you will be more respectable and loveable from your Creator and then from everyone..
Best wishes
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In Uzbekistan you can find different men and women. Most commentators came from their own conditions and tried to generalize their own life. Kamron also wrote a about himself. Great Respect to Uzbek woman and mothers. If you lost your interest to girl that means your eyesight has problem. life is not enough to discover the beautes of the woman.
I do not agree with those such as shirin who saw the West for a little time and thinks about herself educated. The freedom is not freedom there It is slavery to your bodily desires..
However Kamron who are you I don’t know but don’t do it again. You did spread exaggerated information and the other bad is that even you spread information you cannot supply its proper understanding.
Think about implications, as you are man. Uzbek girls think about implications but u could not do it…
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Just because you are a Muslim man does not mean you don’t have sex before marriage. Ideally you are not supposed to just like Christians BUT you do….Why do some people fear being judged so much that they have to make it look like they are so much better than others?
If you are not a virgin don’t expect the women to be virgins.
Why do you think that a man wanting to have sex is normal and a woman wanting to have sex is bad?
All women like sex if it’s done properly. No matter what any woman has said to you for fear of being judged or getting a bad reputation.
You are very selfish if you think that only men should enjoy sex. Not to mention sick in the head.
And people having sex befor marriage is not just a western thing. It happens all over the world including the Muslim world.
And gays do exist in Uzbekistan just like anywhere else in t he world. The reason why you think you don’t know any gay men is probably because your government arrests or kills people for being gay.
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Thank you very much for this topic. I enjoyed reading it and the comments. I do agree that we have our culture that should be preserved, and that our culture is based on Islamic traditions. Islam is a foundation of our culture. I am not saying that we need a theocracy or a religious government. I am talking about Islamic values in our culture, daily lives, personal lives. I remember president Karimov (excuse me for quoting this son of a gun) talking about “Milliy G’oya” - a “National Idea” a few years ago. Well, guess what? We already have a National Idea. We had it for centuries. It is Islam. Even if some of us don’t realize it. Even if we don’t pray five times a day, or fast only for a few days in Ramadan. Even if our women don’t don’t cover their faces. Islam is still there. It is in our blood. Call it “O’zbekchilik” if you wish. No sex before marriage is one of the rules. Adultery is a grave sin. But even if we put religion aside, Western way of life is making our morals (and our family values) decay. BUT we have to be honest with ourselves. Just because there are no physiological proofs (except for occasional STD’s, but hey:)) that a man is not a virgin at the time of the marriage does not mean that man should have pre-marital sex. I am sick and tired of this hypocrisy. How can we demand the girls we marry to be pure and virgin if we, ourselves are not? I had pre-marital sex. I think it is wrong from Islamic point of view. I know that what I did was wrong and know what I have to work on. And I would like to marry a virgin girl. I know that I might sound like a hypocrite, speaking of Islamic values and admitting that I committed adultery. But at least I admit it. Only Allah is perfect and to err is human. I’m just saying that our men should try clean themselves up first, and then demand purity from their future wives. Get out of mentality that you are all perfect and it’s perfectly OK for you to mess around with girls before marriage and it’s not OK for the girls to act the same way. To make it short: Many girls here said - “If men can do it before marriage, why can’t we?”. The question should be different - “If girls can’t do it why can men?” It is not about allowing girls to sin because men can sin. It is about restraining men from sin, because the girls are restrained enough. Anyways, that’s it, or I’ll get more confused than I already am)
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dears,
i am personaly know about uzbek girls that thay are very kind & inocenet , because here in dubai, i saw too much uzbek girls and when i asked them about how thay come to dubai?? most of them are told me that we are divorced , and most of them have children and thay did not have any source in uzekistan to give food and education and give best life to there children , thay come to dubai and working in diffrent compnies for the sum of 400$ to 700 $,
i have one salelady in my shope she is divorced and have a boy and she work hard for the best future for her boy.
i want to help these inocent girls and want to do best for them.
and i also apeal to other people to help them .
princesaleem2001@yahoo.com
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I have an idea!
America invades Uzbekistan, slaughters the sheep-fucking backward male inhabitants who so unfairly insist on their wives not being whores, and removes the womenfolk to the West where they can “pursue a career” and contraceive, abort, and get fucked with impunity.
Mosques destroyed. In their place, giant onyx phalli, wrapped in giant American flags.
Christmas on Earth for the fine ladies of Uzbekistan!
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Hello. And Bye. :)
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Well, I don’t see what is so great about virgins, quite frankly. They are usually in a lot of pain and hardly appreciate the first experiences. Liking the man who gives you pain in sex is an act of forgiveness. That might be beautiful in a twisted way, but is it ideal? Is it real love or is it pity? The difference in Western cutlure is it seek out both kind of love, the kind that you feel when you meet someone and the kind that you feel after years together and knowing that they are right for your family. I don’t think either one is better. They’re just different ideas. Do you want to own someone who resents you? Says the West. Do you want to own someone who’s not really yours? Says the East. And in the end both have the same number of happy or unhappy marriages. Human bondage and love find each other in every culture. And that’s how it is.
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It’s interesting to read the article these replies. It seems like a lot of you are from Uzbekistan or other Muslim countries. A big theme here seems to be that not only is Islam the way people should live, but that there is one way people should live. So I have a question: why should one lifestyle be the solution for everyone, or for every Uzbek? What is wrong with people deciding for themselves how to live their own lives?
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Interesting post. Shirin mentioned that we had adultery and homosexuality before the process of Westernization began. True. People always committed adultery, sodomy and other things. But you have to remember that even though these things existed in Uzbekistan back in the days, no one raised a voice demanding to make these things acceptable and legal. Some people did those things. But everyone knew that it was haram and wrong. Even those who did it. The difference between Islamic culture and what is being imposed on us by modern West is that Islam condemns these things, meanwhile West is preaching that it is ok to do them. Sure there will always be people doing it, whether you prohibit premarital sex or not. They do it in the West, and they do it in the East. Question is, do we consider it as the right thing to do, or do we condemn it. I live in the West. I see American families. Do I want that kind of family? NO!!! I am a man, I am not married, and I had sex with many women. Western women. Reasons? I am in my mid twenties, and not doing it would be bad for my health. I use protection, and I don’t sleep with whores in dirty little rooms that someone here mentioned. Why don’t I marry? I don’t want to marry a Western woman, and the fact that they have premarital sex is not the main reason. First of all, I don’t want a Western family, and don’t want my future kids to grow up in a different culture. Secondly, I am not ready for marriage yet. I need to finish my education, buy a house, establish a descent business or get a good job. Then I will be ready. Therefore I have premarital sex. It is a biological need, though I do realize that it is a sin. That is one of the reasons why Islam stresses the fact that Muslim men need to marry, and marry early. I can’t do it yet, for the reasons I mentioned above. I have never had sex with an Uzbek girl for several reasons. Reason #1: I respect our girls, and would never insult an Uzbek girl by offering to have premarital sex. Reason #2: I do not want the girl’s life to be ruined just because I have some hormones flowing through my body. Reason #3: yes, I am afraid of consequences. If I fall in love with an Uzbek girl, I will have enough patience and common sense to wait until we get married. The West is corrupting our morals. I’ve heard Qobil Qori, a prominent imam from one of Tashkent’s mosque preach. He was asked what he thinks about a growing number of Uzbek girls becoming prostitutes. He said that he heard people say that these were poor women who did it because of economic hardships. He said that during WWII, when Uzbek men were sent to the front, to fight Germans there were Uzbek women who ate dried, mold covered bread and grass, took care of their children, and worked day and night to support the country while waiting for their husbands to return, and even during those terrible times they did not sell their bodies and honor. So, talks about women selling their bodies today because of hardships are lame excuses. It is not the hard times, but fallen morals. One might call me a hypocrite for having premarital sex myself and wanting to marry a pure, virgin girl. I might be a hypocrite, but I have a right to dream about having a family built on moral values of my ancestors. I can assure you that I will not have sex with other women after I get married. I want my wife to be pure and raised with right values, so that my children will be raised with right values. If with Allah’s help I have a son, I will do everything to make sure that he is married early, so that he does not fall into sin, like I did. My father could not afford to give me my future. Inshallah I will give my children theirs.
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Turgai Sangar Reply:
August 3rd, 2009 at 11:43 am
Ofoq, I fully agree with you and Kobil-qori that prostitution is not so much an outcome of poverty and lack of education than it is of social degeneration and short-sighted greed. From my experience with living in poor communities in Tajikistan and other countries, I can confirm that there are more than enough poor and often also widowed women who keep a minimum of decency in part thanks to solid family ties. I also have a hard time to believe that most of these women ending up in Dubai and the likes do not know in advance what kind of ‘work’ they are going to do there. In fact, most are already doing that at home.
Has ‘the West’ caused the degeneration? Partly. IMO, there are several causes. First, the psychological confusion after the rapid unraveling of Soviet society left people vulnerable for the flood of pornography and lifestyle media with unrealistic role models that came over Eurasia. Second, part of the region’s ‘elites’ excel in depravity themselves with Karimova junior as the saddest example. For these ‘elites’, promoting sexual depravity, alcohol and drugs is also a way to control the population. Third, there are all these neo-colonial gender programmes funded by the West and by international organisations and implemented by local vassal NGOs that want to transplant western ‘liberalism’ in the region, no matter what they cackle about ‘cultural sensitivity’. The result is that they often de facto support prostitution and the likes (not to speak of certain expatriates who are actively involved in it).
Indeed, the problem is not that certain things exist as they always have and will continue to exist but that they are now being *promoted* as acceptable and healthy. And the biggest irony is that final purpose is not ‘liberation’ but neo-colonial *subjugation*.
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Ninotchka Reply:
December 14th, 2009 at 11:58 pm
@Ofoq Ho’ja, ummm, adultery and homosexuality are still wrong in the west despite what the media says.
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Dear Readers,
I agree with every one who says Viriginty and religion are seperate but it has become a tradition in many pro-islamic countries but it is not a relogoius practice in islam.
God has given the female this gift(Viginity) to prove her pureness. I belive a traditional uzbek girl or any other traditional girl will not think about giving up her verginity under any cercumstances except in the blessed marriage and marriage is set in all the religions to union the two under one roof and this contract(marriage) seperate the human from animals.
And for the above topic, i think there has been an Exaggeration about the uzbek women and the 21st century is full of sin. Adultry has been spread accross the globe and uzbek’s are not the only one who are suffering.
Uzbek girls are told about the sex (we call it getting closer) only the day when they get marriage and thats safe for them and for all other virigin girls in the world. Thats why we still see some girls who are shy and loyal to thier husbands.
And about sex education, we need to know that it is sin, not like the western girls who celebrate to loose her virginity with some unknown and unpure person. There are many books who is siutable for married couples, if you like to keep clean environment, not to experience it beofre merriage.
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Sooo… i read most of the comments and the article of course. And i have to say, i do not like the way how the article was concluded. You suggest uzbek girls to be more open?? are you out of your mind?! maybe you have gotten the same influence as mentioned in your article about the “western culture”, the fact is you are an Uzbek boy too. I am uzbek, and i know my people. YES there is the TashMI 2 which does all that, but its not that simple!
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