Girls just wanna have fun!
That’s all they really wa-aa-ant!
When the working day is done
Girls they wanna have fun!

Oh, father dear we’re not the fortunate ones
But girls just wanna have fun.

That’s all they really wa-aa-nt.
Is to have some fu-u-un.
When the working day is done
Girls just want to have fun.

Anything else is over thinking it.

My situation is just like yours was John, as a matter of fact the sistuation of povherty and unployment is tought down there, she in alone, her parents both died and she is growing up a little daughter, as soon as she was born her ex husband left her doen not provide anything for her, and i am taking care of everything for everything from Italy, i send her money for all her needs and iapplied the little daughter for a english private kindergarden.
I am from southern Italy and we have high family values and i am well concerned of the word “together” that’s the way i wish a couple is. Bad People and good people are everywhere of course its not a matter or nationality or country.
Regarding the visa to get her in Italy, i heard that is very very difficult, but provviding her with a work contract could help make things easier i suppose, at least Italian laws permit immigrants to come in Italy if they are provided with a working contract.

Thank you very much for your help guys, i appreciate it very much !

But my other thought is this: Uzbekistan is a very impoverished country, and culturally, the family/clan is very central. She could indeed be the most genuine, sincere person in the world, head over heals for you, and totally capable of earning a living for herself (after all, you met her in Dubai while she was working there), but if her home situation is crap, you’re going to need to help her. That’s the nature of commitment in general — you’re in things *together*, which means you have to deal with each other’s backgrounds and families — much less when dealing with very glaring differences in material conditions as that which exists between East and West.

But maybe you know this already, and just need to hear another Western guy tell you. ;-) The real point then, is, that *at root*, if you two are transparent and fair with each other, it won’t be any different a relationship than what you can expect in the West. Yes, there will be the cultural and socio-economic differences, but it’s not like all Westerners are the same, much less fit together.

Of course there are woman from these countries who want to have a better life. Really, Ukraine woman are famous for it and even my (Russian) wife who lived near Ukraine tells me about it.
It is bad living in the former USSR south asian states and I believe Tadjikistan is not better then KG. There they go for a better life, but I am sure that after some months if you really like each other, you will know about it (and sexual feelings too) and feel it in letters (or Skype).If not I should have doubts about it really.
You told that she was working in Dubai, it means she know some of the world and she was able to go abroad which is not always easy for these people.

Success
John

This woman is well “westernized” anyway, and regarding the “sexuality” argument” it is not something i want to “touch or feel” on my first date, of course i am not going there for a sex trip, in that case i cna find it here in Italy in a much easier and less expensice way :-)).

My only purpose was to know about the faithfulness and honesty of women from that country, so many italian and other european men began relations with women from countries of that part of the world that in sign of respect i dont want to mention and found themselves just used, they started by sayinf that they had problems, ill children, need of mecines, and it was just to spill out some money out of them. That is why i was wondering if there is anyone committed to a uzbek woman that cna somehow share his experience with me. I trust very much in this woman, but in nowadays you never know.

Anyway thank you very much for your reply and i will surely keep it in my mind. :-)

However, you should be aware that the Uzbeks have many unfair things said about them. This arises from a number of different sources. For example, Soviet nation-planning purposefully left significant numbers of Uzbeks in the countries surrounding Uzbekistan. During the communist period, rivalries developed between these Uzbek “expatriates” (often a status they received because of internal Soviet regulations), who often adapted to communism, and the “titulars” (i.e., the people to whom the countries are “supposed to belong” by dint of namesake), who often resisted it. These rivalries have worsened since independence. For example, in Kyrgyzstan (where the situation has become violent), the Uzbek community has been especially successful in terms of business and professionalization, while in Kazakhstan, they have been more dependent upon social welfare.

Another source arises from the nature of their government: the sad truth is, it is among the most corrupt and violent in the world. Indeed, it is a rather frightening force in the region, and is often seen as an opponent to development, especially in Tajikistan (who are trying to develop their water resources but are being opposed by the Uzbekistani government). However, people forget that the regime is in many respects an inheritance from the Soviet intelligence apparatus and has been imposed upon the Uzbek people.

And so on, and so on. The point is: try to be critical with respect to everything you hear about the Uzbeks.

As for your specific predicament, the Uzbeks, like many of the Central Asians, can often be torn between “Tradition” and “Modernity”. Newcomers to the region often use Russification as their measure, i.e., the extent to which a person has embraced not only the Russian language, but the Russian worldview, then the more “Western” (and in the case of women, therefore the more “open” or “promiscuous”) they are supposed to be. The reality, however, is much more complex, and this women you are interested in has probably spent her whole life trying to navigate “what is” and “isn’t” supposed to be “Uzbek”.

In the end, my instinct is that you’re making the right choice about the hotel; that will keep both of you out of trouble, for many reasons (ranging from backbiting in her neighborhood to the suspicion of secret police to your own sense of dignity). But what you’ve got to do with her is what all men have to do with women everywhere: tell her the truth about your feelings.

But, be diplomatic. Preface yourself by saying something along the lines of, “I’m very new to your culture so I don’t know what is and isn’t appropriate. However, I have something I need to tell you, which I hope shall not be offensive or intrusive.” Or something along those lines.

And, well, good luck.